Wednesday, April 28, 2010

I think this is ADORABLE! Pinky Swear!


From a 1950's high school home economics textbook, teaching girls how to prepare for married life.



1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work- weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.




3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6. Things to avoid: Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he's late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.

10. The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

5 amazing people said...:

A Nurse's Curses said...

Pretty sure I do the exact opposite of all those things. Especially the part about "being a little gay". Um, no, although he would find it more interesting?

Rosie said...

oh my, I just failed...MISERABLY.
that is really funny...I would have to start preparing for my husbands return at 9:00am...good thing my husband is forgiving...great picture...LOVE this post...Rosie

Anonymous said...

wow, I *knew* I was doing something wrong!

Dawn said...

ladies...can you even imagine???? puhleeeease! judging from this, it sounds like i am lucky to even HAVE a husband... :D

Rosie said...

AMEN SISTER...but...
we will strive to have the water boiling, ready for the kraft dinner...
we will run the snow shovel through the house to clear a path...
we will hose down the kids "early"~so they will be dry when they HUG their daddy...
we'll TRY to be out of our old, wholey P.J's and run a brush through the rats nest...
WOW...this would be the total package...
...have a groovy day...Rosie

...or we could all move to Darby's

 

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